For Vijay Kumari, a 77-year-old resident of Lucknow, the month of September evokes cherished memories and a sense of pride, as it commemorates her husband, Major Dhirendra Singh’s, recognition with the Vir Chakra for his exceptional bravery during the 1965 India-Pakistan war. Despite sustaining injuries during the conflict, his demonstration of courage and valor remains a source of profound pride for his wife. In 1965, at the age of 25, Major Dhirendra Singh served on the Kashmir front. A landmine explosion resulted in the severe injury and subsequent amputation of his leg.
Major Dhirendra Singh exhibited remarkable resilience, silencing the enemy’s artillery. This act of valor earned him the Vir Chakra, India’s third-highest gallantry award. Vijay Kumari recalls that communication was limited at the time, with the news of her husband’s injury arriving via a letter. On September 23, 1965, while at her parents’ home in Gorakhpur, a letter from the Commanding Officer of the 3rd Battalion (Rifles) of the Kumaon Regiment reached her in-laws, providing details of the incident.
Following the war, Major Dhirendra Singh’s life underwent a significant transformation. In 1966, he received an artificial leg and was posted to Lucknow. Although he was deemed medically unfit in 1971, requiring him to leave the army, he consistently inspired his children. He envisioned his son serving in the military, and his happiness knew no bounds when his son participated in the passing out parade.
Vijay Kumari emphasizes her husband’s mental strength. Despite having an artificial leg, he drove a scooter, car, and even a tractor. He firmly believed in the importance of overcoming challenges. The passing of Major Singh in Delhi in April 2025 was a difficult time for Vijay Kumari, yet his valor and courage continue to inspire his family.