Current discourse in India heavily involves live-in relationships, generating varied opinions from social, legal, and familial perspectives. Though legally recognized, many still find it difficult to accept. Intriguingly, Jharkhand, a state with a significant tribal population, has a centuries-old custom similar to modern live-in arrangements: the Dhuku practice.
When a young couple in tribal society expresses mutual affection, but encounters family obstacles to marriage, the man brings the woman to his residence. They begin to live together as husband and wife without formal marital rites. This constitutes a Dhuku marriage.
There’s no age restriction in the Dhuku custom. The couple can cohabit once they choose, without social ceremonies. However, the couple only gets societal acceptance when they undergo a traditional marriage facilitated by the village head or social figures.
This practice gained renewed attention following a recent case in Jharkhand’s Khunti district. A 14-year-old girl sought medical help at Sadar Hospital, complaining of abdominal pain. Examination revealed she was seven months pregnant. It was discovered she lived with a 16-year-old boy through the Dhuku system. Family members acknowledged their relationship. The underage girl later delivered a baby girl in the hospital. Thankfully, both mother and child are in good health.